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The first thing is to convince your mate to try something
like this. You should not force this on your mate, but try
and sweat talk them into trying it once. You can always go
as a voyeurs for the first time, meaning you will only participate
as lookers only and not participate in any sexual acts. Afterwards
discuss what you liked and what you didn't like about it and
weather you would like to go one step further the next time.
- Always make sure your partner is OK with any act that you
are going to participate in, so that later you would not regret
it or have any problems.
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Start by looking for swinger conventions and swingers clubs.
Ofcourse most places require you to
go as a couple, so if you are a single guy then you are in
trouble, but single women should have no problem getting in
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You can also try online classifieds for couples that share
similar interests and exchange pictures, meet them for coffee
and see how things go.-
In most swinger parties/clubs usually the women initiate the
conversation and if they hit it off then they introduce their
male partners.
- Always practice safe sex. Never have unprotected sex. Obviously
those engaged in a swinging lifestyle have a higher chance
of catching diseases, so keep this in mind.
